Being without a relationship for more than a year, I get very angry when married ladies start to slander their husbands. It me off so much that I couldn't stand it anymore and decided to write the following. The way of living alone taught me to pay attention to the fact that: it is very important that there is a person next to me, who, even if he is not related by blood, but he is there, all the time. He is alive and interested in me. He is physically stronger than me and has money when I am running out of it. But the most important thing is that every day he chooses to be with me!
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Let's take a closer look:
- The man is restrained by a child. Not at all. That never stopped him. How many divorced families with children are there now. Therefore, such a judgment falls away unequivocally.
- He is with me as long as he feels so good and comfortable. This is self-deception. You are not a millionaire or a movie star Angelina Jolie, and certainly not his most reliable partner who also does all the work for him.
If you think that you wash his socks and cook food, and this is all the convenience for him, then you are deeply mistaken. If you compare it with what he has to endure every day: headaches, tantrums, discontent and depression, threats, silence and insults. And all this for a bowl of soup and a pair of clean socks. Well, no.
Many women underestimate men. By the way, all financiers are men. They know how to compare profits and investments, and wisely.
- He is with me by inertia. This option also falls away, the person is not with you and there is no inertia.
- So far, he doesn't have a better option. Why is there? I am the best option. I will not bother him, and demand from him a declaration of love, and tell him what and how he needs to do. He will give out a thousand rubles a day, and I will smile contentedly and thank him. I am the very option and I am completely free. But he stays with me! Isn't it strange?
- Nobody needs him except me. Of course, I need him. Read the paragraph above.
- I am a queen and everyone feels good next to me. Many have had this title since childhood. But the husband does not need this hemorrhoids, expressed in pouting lips, dissatisfaction and whims, at all. A wiser man will spit on everything and leave. There is another option - the husband will eat it without paying attention, then you, the queen, are lucky. If you can call it luck.
- A self-confident super-hostess, without whom her husband simply cannot cope.
This is a misconception, a man is very good at housework. He does not need a woman for this.
Understand, you should not look for reasons in your husband. He is with you, he made such a choice. Maybe you should think about yourself. If you want to save the relationship, analyze your actions. Perhaps the whole reason lies in you.