Nowadays, it has become completely commonplace that people meet on the Internet and find soulmates. And, although this method can no longer be called new, not everyone understands what pitfalls it hides. And the rules of behavior with a new acquaintance will not hurt to find out. Moreover, he can put someone else's photo instead of his own, or even put some Batman or Matroskin the cat as an avatar. There are many different eccentrics in the world. But let's start with the advantages of this method of dating.
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The first and foremost advantage of online dating - a wide range of applicants for the role of the groom. On social networks, we join interest groups and participate in discussions. This is how personal correspondence begins during dialogues. At the same time, a woman who is quite shy in life, not confident in herself, can talk even on frivolous topics on the Internet, feeling completely free and relaxed.
Это хорошо. Нужно разрешать себе флиртовать, примерять на себя роли разных героинь, включая самых распрекрасных красавиц. Так растет самооценка. После можно приступать и к более серьезному общению.
Second Advantage – the ability to search for a partner according to certain criteria. On online dating sites, it is proposed to fill out a questionnaire, which indicates the parameters of a man of interest to the lady, preferences for his occupation, education requirements and other wishes.
Before specifying them, you should think carefully about each criterion.
- Is it so important to you that his education is not inferior to yours?
- Wouldn't it be better to pay attention to his skillful hands, without which there is no way in the household?
You also need to think over the story about yourself. Write honestly what you can give to your partner, what principles you are not ready to violate, and which you can give up. It is quite possible that after such honest answers to yourself, the list of requirements for a man will also change.
Third Advantage – You don't have to go to face-to-face meetings with applicants for a serious relationship every time. Due to being busy at work or in the family, many people simply do not find time for personal meetings. Correspondence successfully replaces them for some time. Later, if there is mutual interest, of course, you cannot do without personal meetings. Only live communication will help you understand whether the proverbial spark will run between you.
What should alert you when communicating
with the opposite sex on the Internet!
First of all, you need to think about the common phrase: "I'm looking for a woman for a serious relationship." In fact, men write or say it only because a woman wants to hear it. The truth is that he wants lightness in a relationship and a flirtation that does not oblige him to anything. And you, dear girls, don't you want this? Actually, in the process of flirting, it becomes clear whether something more serious is born between you, whether you want to go through life together.
Pay attention to the photo. If it is clearly improved in the Photoshop program, or it is clear that the photo is staged, this should alert you. A man may turn out to be a narcissistic egoist. Well, judge for yourself, how many representatives of the stronger sex order photo shoots where they are filmed alone? Unless their profession provides for it.
Do not start even a minor correspondence with someone who does not post photos at all. Perhaps he is embarrassed by his age or not too presentable appearance. Either he is afraid that he will be recognized or hides his true face. After all, it may turn out that the page of a twenty-five-year-old mysterious stranger belongs to a teenager of about fifteen years old, and he jokes, communicating with adult women. You can check all your guesses only at a personal meeting. If a man refuses an offer to meet under any pretext, this is for a reason.
It is strange if a man strictly adheres to the time frame for communication. For example, he devotes time to correspondence from 21:00 to 23:00 and practically does not violate the regime. Doesn't this mean that the rest of the time he is busy with his family or relationships with a real woman?
Bores who constantly talk about what terrible women they have come across all their lives should also go their own way. We also send shameless boors there, who do not hesitate in expressions in communication with a virtual acquaintance.
So now you dear ladies are armed with the knowledge of what can happen in online communication. This means that you will not make mistakes that will later cost you your nerves and your own health.