Пожалуй, каждый, кто хоть раз чувствовал влюбленность, знает, что любовь проходит в несколько периодов. Очень важно, понимать на каком этапе находятся ваши отношения, ведь многие пары именно поэтому и расстаются, от незнания того, что происходит между людьми. Любовь не прекращает расти, нужно только не мешать ей.
"Candy-bouquet" period
It passes within 18 months. While this very pleasant stage lasts, people are in a state close to narcotic – in love euphoria. At this time, everything seems rosy and beautiful, but do not deceive yourself, this is just the effect of hormones and sooner or later it will stop. So you should not make very important decisions until the relationship is stronger.
Glut
The flurry of emotions goes out, you become more relaxed, begins to get used to your partner and notice not only the advantages, but also the disadvantages.
Disgust
Without this period, there is no long-term relationship. You begin to focus only on your partner's shortcomings. This is the most fruitful time for quarrels, which can lead to a breakup. But if you follow your emotions, you will lose a potentially strong relationship and start all over again with another person.
Patience
Конфликты не перестают возникать, но пройдя предыдущий этап, пара начинает находить в себе силы к терпению, а вместе с терпением приходит мудрость. Это важнейший закон природы.
The stage of duty and respect
At this stage, love arises! Everything that came before it is imbued with the desire to possess, and during this period of relationships, people begin to think the opposite, what they should do for their loved one, rather than what they should do for them.
Friendship
After going through many trials, partners become true friends, and with friendship comes trust.
Love
True love must be earned. Only through long-term and far from simple relationships, a strong and strong feeling can be formed between people. Love is learned by going through certain trials and acquiring on this path everything without which love cannot exist. This is a long process.
People converge and diverge, but it is not always impossible to influence it. True love in family life is acquired by blood, sweat and tears. It is a fruit that needs time to ripen. When the first difficulties begin after romance, it is important not to break down and learn to endure, be friends, and only then love. For those who, after the beginning of quarrels and conflicts, say: "Love has passed", you can answer that it has not yet begun.