How to teach a child to respect his parents? Those women are right who do not allow a deep maternal feeling to blind them, so that they are, as it were, subordinate to their children.
There is one golden pedagogical rule that has been tested in practice. This rule says: as much as possible to be demanding of children, as much respect as possible for them. This means that parents should not only be strict, demanding, but also attentive to the child. It must be remembered that physical force cannot implant good things into the soul of a child. Slaps on the head, harsh words spoken in hearts will not reach him.
It does not hurt parents to remember that if today they yelled at the child, demanding that he do something, then tomorrow they will have to shout twice as hard, since any strong irritation gradually ceases to work. Therefore, it is best to avoid such methods of education as shouting, swearing, reproaches and even more so beatings. Children quickly get used to them, and they themselves gradually become hardened.
If a child hears abusive words from his father, from his mother, that is, from the closest people, then it is not surprising that he will repeat them.
Настоящая родительская строгость и грубость не одно и то же. Если ребенка часто бранят, грозят ему ремнем, наказывают за каждый маленький проступок, это ни к чему доброму не приведет, Это вызывает у детей лишь озлобленность. У таких родителей дети дома с виду покорные, тихие, а вне дома, в школе или общественном месте, ведут себя грубо и недисциплинированно.
Whoever wants to raise his children to be good people must respect the child and demand as much as possible from him. Day after day, from the earliest years, it is necessary to demand that he be neat, thrifty, help with the housework, be sensitive to friends and adults, so that he studies well. A mother or father can say to a teenager: "I love and respect you, that's why I demand: be truthful, study and work well, respect your elders, take care of your honor, the honor of the Soviet person, the honor of the family!"
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