У вас намечается первое, а может и уже и не первое свидание с девушкой, которая вам очень нравится. Конечно, хочется произвести на нее неизгладимое впечатление. Уже порядок почти наведен (все спрятано с глаз долой), конфетки-тортики и вино прикуплены, новые носки надеты, крутой аромат из рекламы апробирован. Остается одна проблема – развлекательная программа. Как создать романтическую обстановку?
Everything is simple and invented a long time ago: cinema is the most important of the arts, as someone great said. Everything is there - twilight, emotions, joint experiences. Necessary magic, in short. The decision has been made - now we need to choose a film. What she likes is still unknown. Fussing at the last moment is not respectable. That is, you need to have 2-3 options in reserve and decide on the situation completely. You can, of course, show male persistence and not even ask. But this situation is quite risky - modern girls with character have their own opinion. And the film may not be interesting to her, which means that she will be bored. This cannot be allowed in any way.
So what to choose so as not to seem trivial, but also not to scare your counterpart with your creativity. A few tips from an expert in relationships.
1. Immediately you need to throw away and even erotica, especially on the first date. The girl may turn out to be chaste, and your date will be irretrievably ruined.
2. Also, you need to give up heavy films. No horrors on Elm Street and on other streets either. The sight of a ripped stomach is not conducive to a romantic continuation of the evening. And a cake bought for the last coins will definitely not fit into your mouth. This should also include all horrors about zombies, UFOs and other rubbish. Scary movies can be staged on 3-4 dates and only if the girl does not mind.
3. Do not choose dramas – "cry" movies. You don't need these experiences, even if they are beautiful, because your couple has everything ahead of them. And watching a dramatic film, each person, willy-nilly, tries on the situation for himself. That is, "Titanic" or "White Bim Black Ear" definitely does not need to be turned on. From the drama genre, you can choose a more intellectual movie, but without a tragic ending. For example, "Catch Me If You Can" or "Mind Games".
4. Comedy is great for creating a fun mood and a relaxed atmosphere. But comedies are also different, and often behind a completely harmless name there is a "funny" story of 18+ with obscenity, vulgarity and dirty sex. Therefore, you need to know in advance what the chosen comedy is about. It is categorically unacceptable to take films with the voice acting of the Goblin. Films with Jackie Chan are also banned - most girls can't stand them.
5. Action and adventure are recommended for viewing. The main thing is that there are famous Hollywood stars, or at least domestic ones. A Chinese action movie about the war of the Qin clan against the Cun clan lasting 4 hours should not be included. Thrillers - a middle ground between action and horror can only be chosen if the girl agrees. Otherwise, some impressionable persons will then be afraid of the gentleman who made them watch an exciting, but scary movie. The second date may not happen.
6. Science fiction and fantasy should also be skipped - you may seem too frivolous to the girl and not yet out of childhood, that is, unsuitable for a serious relationship.
7. Melodrama is a win-win choice - a beautiful movie about beautiful love, of course, with a happy ending. This disposes to the continuation of the relationship. Just don't show that you're bored (especially don't switch to the Internet and computer games), otherwise everything will go down the drain.
8. And if you want a girl to come to you many, many times, put on a funny youth series from the first episode. There is a lot of fun, kisses and in general - everything is cool. And you will have the same!